“Rarely, if ever, are any of us healed in isolation.” – bell Hooks Dear Fellow Warrior, Over the past year, I think I have done a better job of transitioning some of my unfiltered writing, primarily in my daily journal, rather than feeling that urge to share my thoughts immediately with a world that doesn’t…
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Time Passes…Seasons Change…And We Keep Building
“Not everything that is faced can be changed, but nothing can be changed until it is faced.” – James Baldwin Dear Fellow Warrior, Time passes, seasons come and go…. and summer feels like it is already here… even when you are not ready for the heat. I missed the Kite Festival in DC, this year.…
Ten Years with a Warrior KQueen
“Write hard and clear about what hurts.” – Earnest Hemingway, A Moveable Feast Dear Fellow Warrior, Spring has arrived. Through another difficult winter and the blessing of another Ramadan. And I know I have not written for several months now. This is actually the first blog post on Chronicles of a Warrior KQueen, the first…
A Tribute to Allah: Honoring Survival and The Ultimate Spiritual Transformation
“To Him We Belong. And To Him We Return.” – (Quran, 2:156) Dear Fellow Warrior, There is no perfect end of the year. No perfect close. It just needs to close. You need to cross that finish line. Because time never stops; it is the only resource that will always remain scarce. So I didn’t…
My Social Media Achilles Heel: Jealousy, Visibility Politics, and Divine Reorientation
“When I dare to be powerful, to use my strength in the service of my vision, then it becomes less and less important whether I am afraid.” – Audre Lorde Dear Fellow Warrior, I am increasingly mindful of the difference between quiet presence and silent extraction. Several years ago, as soon as I finished my…
A Warrior Breaks Away to Find Another Way
“You either walk inside your story and own it, or you stand outside your story and hustle for your worthiness.” – Dr. Brene Brown Dear Fellow Warrior, I didn’t expect it to take this long to write to you again after my last message. However, this is difficult because I understand now why it has…
Heartfelt GoodBye to Facebook Community
Dear Fellow Warrior, On my birthday this year, July 9th, I wanted to gift myself an exit from my community on Facebook, and ultimately from the way I showed up on all my social media platforms. Not because anything was wrong with it. It just wasn’t working for me anymore. It wasn’t serving me, and…
A Love Letter to My Ajnabi
“Eh Ajnabi, Tu Bhi Kabih, Awaaz de Kahin Se” I’ve written many letters in my life. This one is different. This one is for the ghost of a love I never met, and for the woman I have become because of it. Thank you for reading. Dear Ajnabi, Where do we begin when we don’t…